Originally, your relationship was the centerpiece of your life!
How about now?
All the shortcomings and frailties of each partner are well known by now. Some of them were perhaps not obvious during the dating process. How have you adjusted to the “Total Person” you know now? Is there still the same attraction or has the lamplight of love dimmed just a little, or a lot?
Actually, love is also a decision. There is more to it than the original physical attraction that brought you together. Now that we’ve been married 54 years, we don’t even look the same, but I have learned so much that makes me love her even more.
You and your spouse can always be happy together if you have fun, practice patience, respect, kindness and all the courtesies you would extend to a total stranger!
If not today, when?
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