After 55 years of marriage, I have a few observations.
Understand that you both bring unique life experiences to the marriage and will sometimes have very different reactions to the same event.
A successful marriage is only possible if both parties are willing to go 60% of the way to resolve differences. Going halfway (50%) assumes the other party will always go half way. Too risky!
Don’t bring up previous disagreements.
Surprise your partner with acts of kindness.
If you have children, both of you must be in agreement on the do’s and don’ts of their behavior. If not, your children will choose the parent more likely to acquiesce to their demands.
Show your children how to have a marriage filled with love.
Always show gratitude to your partner who has made a lifetime commitment to your happiness.
If not today, when?
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