Put Spouse First!

I’m asking you to do something that is unnatural.

I’m suggesting that you deliberately prioritize the needs of your spouse ahead of your needs.

And I’m asking your spouse to reciprocate by putting your needs first.

Most of us made the decision to marry a specific person because we saw the benefits WE WOULD GET such as: a sexual partner, a companion, a confidant.

Yet, if the marriage is to last “till death do us part,” we must make our partner’s experience in this marriage SOMETHING HE/SHE WANTS TO ENDURE!

Do you and your married partner feel your relationship is FAIR TO BOTH PARTIES?

If not, hopefully, it’s not too late to begin focusing on your spouse more than yourself.

I know of a married person who says to his spouse each morning: “How can I help make your day a good one today?”