How To Express Disappointment

When a loved one does or says something that embarrasses or offends you, the first impulse is to strike out at that person in anger.

Expressing disappointment is the better route.

It is not as confrontational as anger.

An inherent benefit in expressing disappointment is the introduction of a new, unexpected result of the offense.

You can now explain the impact it had on you.

Begin by saying that you are disappointed.

Go on to explain the impact it had on you and any other parties present.

Tell him/her how it made you feel.

Finally, ask him/her to please not to do it again.

Many times people don’t realize the impact their behavior has on other people.

If you want this relationship to grow, you are doing them a favor by speaking out.

If not today, when?