For a marriage to be successful, both partners must be committed to whatever needs to be done.
Vacuuming, as an example, is not “woman’s work!”
And above all, don’t begin counting who did what last and whose turn it is to do the next thing.
Let’s remember, marriage is a partnership and must be conducted like one.
Your primary objective is to make all efforts necessary to make your spouse happy with the relationship.
He or she will be happy if feel they are treated fairly.
And keeping count of who did what last is not the path to FAIRNESS!
It’s impossible for your spouse to feel loved if they feel they are carrying the larger burden.
Be fair! Don’t count!
If not today, when?
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