
Although we raised six children, I don’t believe I’m an expert.
Here are some observations I’ve made while raising children to adulthood:
Unconditional Love
I don’t think there has been a more difficult time for child raising than now. Your children have many negative influences over which you have no control. Therefore, you must set yourself apart as the one person who will always love them no matter what.
Consistency
You must give praise when they do something praiseworthy and discipline when it is warranted.
Personal Example
They will learn more from what you do than what you say. This requires you to become the role model they strive to be.
Constant Communication
Because you didn’t grow up in times like these, you’ve got to know what’s going on with each child. This requires you to build trust so that they will talk to you.
A Parent Forever
Your responsibilities as a parent don’t end when your children reach 21 years of age. Their problems become more serious and you may be the only one they can trust.
Prayer
Unfortunately, there is no handbook on how to raise children. That is why we must always ask God for guidance in our journey.
