Meeting a person for the first time is usually quite pleasant.
People are on their” “best behavior” as they say.
If the first meeting is followed by more meetings, facts begin to emerge.
Those facts can be opinions which are the result of previous experiences.
Most people’s adult lives are a reflection of their upbringing.
If they did not have good parenting, they won’t know what good parenting is.
…And their role as a parent will be a difficult learning experience.
Hopefully, the other parent, who hopefully was raised well, can be an example of that role with their children.
What I mean by “raised well” is a child of a stable, loving environment.
My only advice is to know the history of the person you may have children with before you do.
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