The world’s events seem to be getting more and more serious.

Why not take a break and have whatever your kind of FUN is.

My FUN is driving a beautiful boat up the Detroit River to some distant destination.

The beauty and feeling of freedom all around me warms the soul!

I’m sure you would describe FUN in some other way that suits your tastes.

Whatever your brand of FUN may be, go out and do it!

You only live once and once is enough if you do it right.

So, throw off the worry and stress of modern day life and create your own Form of FUN!

If not today, when?

Heading into Tampa Bay’s game against the Carolina Panthers on Sunday afternoon, Buccaneers tight end Rob Gronkowski needed five catches, 58 receiving yards, or three touchdowns to get a handsome incentive heading into the postseason.

Gronkowski hauled in seven receptions with 137 yards and landed a $1 million bonus and quarterback Tom Brady completed 29 of 37 passes for 326 yards with three touchdowns in the Bucs’ 41-17 win over Carolina.

With under 7 minutes to go in the game, the Bucs held a two-touchdown lead over the Panthers, but Brady made sure to go back onto the field to help Gronkowski get one final reception to land the $500,000 bonus. (FOX)

The Buccaneers’ coaches told Brady to stay out of the remainder of the game to keep him safe for the playoffs beginning next week.

Brady, told the coaches he was going to continue playing until Gronk got his bonus.

Isn’t that what friends are for?

Yes, today’s blog is all about our Democracy.

A Democracy, simply stated, is the right to choose EVERYTHING in your life!!

Including the RIGHT TO VOTE for who you want to be your mayor, governor, senator, judge and president.

A Democracy is, however, much more than the right to vote.

It’s FREEDOM to live where you want, have as many children as you want.

Have the kind of job you want.

Join the church you want.

So, Democracy is freedom, freedom, freedom.

Our Democracy is not guaranteed to last forever.

Protect it. Get involved.

If not today, when?

“with the exception of wearing a mask, I lead a normal life.

I work while wearing a mask.

I go shopping while wearing a mask.

When I get together with fully vaccinated friends and family, I don’t wear a mask.

If we get sick, we all know we should stay home.

So, I’d rather enjoy my life than live in fear.

I have had my three vaccines and I need to have my life as normal as can be.

Life is too short and I want to enjoy it!” (New York Times)

We met her once here in Detroit.

She was old and not even 5 feet tall.

She came from humble beginnings, lived and died as a humble person.

So, WHY DID THIS LITTLE OLD LADY SHAKE UP THE WORLD?

Is it really that noteworthy that someone would reach out to help someone in need?

Unfortunately, YES!

The poor are uneducated, inadequately housed and fed with little or no access to good medical care and little hope for their future or the future of their children.

And I’m not talking about people living in Ethiopia or the Sudan!

No, I’m talking about people who live within 1 MILE OF YOUR HOUSE!

The safe, little, upscale conclave we live in is not how the world really is.

She knew that and so do we.

We can all do what she did in some small way.

Will you perform an act of COMPASSION for the first time in 2022?

When Mother Teresa died and went to heaven, she took no possessions with her!

Neither will you!

The family immigrated from the Congo to Des Moines, Iowa.

Mom died during her 5th childbirth.

Months later, dad died while driving to his job at a pork processing plant during a winter storm.

The grand parents are poor and don’t speak English.

The newborn baby and brothers ages 2, 6, 8 an 10 are, of course heartbroken and crying all day.

The local church sponsored a You Fund Drive and raised $160,000.

But, who will raise the kids?

If I was 20 years younger, I’d take them.

The ideal adoptive parents, however, should also be of African descent.

Do you know an ideal adoptive family.

If not Today, when?

Ben Roethlisberger, of the Pittsburgh Steelers, is seen encouraging the Cleveland Brown’s young quarterback, Baker Mayfield, after Ben’s last home game in Pittsburgh.

And so, the torch is passed onto another generation with all its hopes and dreams.

Ben has BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT!

The CURTAIN OF LIFE is going up for the young and down for the old.

Hopefully, the young will face the inescapable hardships that come along with courage and a belief in themselves!

Hopefully, the old will learn valuable lessons from their successes and failures and pass their hard earned wisdom onto the young.

Hopefully, the young will listen!

If not today, when?

Today’s title is one of the many memorable quotes from the late Archbishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa.

Although a man of peace, he stood up against the evils of apartheid.

For many of us, it is very difficult to forgive.

For men especially, the MALE EGO rises up as an impediment to performing the act of forgiveness.

Have you ever considered how many times GOD has forgiven each of us?

Can’t we take HIS example and become KINDER, GENTLER to one another?

If not today, when?

I see so many disturbing trends these days.

I’ll bet you see them too.

Among these trends are:

CLIMATE CHANGE (1,000 structures burned to the ground in Colorado in a few hours)

THE PANDEMIC (New variants continue to sicken more people worldwide)

MORE VIOLENCE (Homicide rates are on the increase across America)

POLITICAL DIVISENESS (Party rigidity has undermined patriotism)

LESS FAITH IN GOD (So many people losing faith)

So, WHAT DO WE DO ABOUT ALL THE ABOVE?

The answer: We cling to our values!

We can’t allow all the negativity to change who and what we are.

Speaking of values, which ones do you adhere to?

And are they sufficient to help you WEATHER THE STORM?

May I suggest adherence to the following values: Honesty, loyalty, compassion, forgiveness, faith in God, kindness, love and courage!

If not today, when?