It’s all about attitude.

Do YOU want to make the world a better place?

Or will you take care of your needs…

And let the world take care of itself?

Unfortunately, that’s the prevailing attitude.

I HAVE NEVER FELT THAT WAY!

I have written over 2200 blogs. I don’t get paid for them.

So, why do I make the effort every morning?

Now that I’m 84, it’s my way of trying to make the world a better place.

What are you willing to do?

Both of them are in our thoughts.

Which one will dominate your decisions?

The irony is that dreams are not attained without overcoming fears.

And fear usually wins the day!

What is your history regarding dreams and fears?

I ask this because we are all creatures of habit.

And habits are hard to break.

Unfortunately, the clock is ticking.

As you get older, your dreams may become out of reach.

All I can tell you is I had a longstanding fear that I finally overcame.

I put it off till age 63, and I will be forever happy achieving it!

For what?

For all the years!

For all the kindness

For all the patience!

For all the loyalty!

For being there!

For understanding!

For putting the marriage first!

For being a role model for the children!

Etc, etc, etc

(Roger Staubach)

Roger Staubach was the quarterback for the Dallas Cowboys from 1969 to 1979.

Can you imagine the physical punishment he had to endure in all those years?

We must learn of our possibilities by watching people like him.

Each of us can go the “EXTRA MILE” if we are willing to put out the effort.

It’s not easy, but it is possible!

It’s your choice.

If not today, when?

(In my youth, there was a popular song entitled “Make Someone Happy.” It had a truly meaningful message. A message much needed in these times.)

Make someone happy
Make just one, someone happy
Make just one heart the heart you cling to

Fame, if you win it
Comes and goes in a minute
Where’s the real stuff in life, to cling to?

Love is the answer
Someone to love is the answer

Make someone happy
Make just one, someone happy
And you will be happy too

He can’t walk, but he can keep his mind alert.

Yes, he’s disabled and he spends his days with his books of puzzles.

We can learn from him.

Like him, we must cope with whatever is holding us back.

Is it your lack of the education needed to obtain the career you want?

Is it your lack of self confidence to speak up when necessary?

Can we accept our circumstances and stilll move forward?

Remember the man and his puzzles.

Confucius)

My wife has a favorite saying, “Keep on marching.”

I guess that’s what Confucius was also saying.

Some of our days are better than others.

But, added up, they make a lifetime.

We must re-dedicate each day to the virtues we believe in.

If we do that, each of our days is worthwhile in the sight of God.

We’re in short supply of KINDNESS these days.

A simple way to be kind is to offer “Thanks!”

Three other ways to express kindness is to practice compassion, empathy and forgiveness.

We need more of it in our families.

We need more of it in the work place.

We need more of it in the public dialogue.

We need more of it in our marriages!

Will you practice kindness?

If not today, when?

This is a very timely question.

It seems that everyone has an agenda.

And we live in a time when misinformation is commonplace.

So, how do we go about making responsible decisions?

Because common sense is not so common, it’s difficult.

But, you still know good from bad.

Yes, you still know right from wrong.

If something just doesn’t feel right, it’s not right.

Not now, not ever!

(Henry Ford)

Can you imagine the problems Henry Ford had with the first assembly line?

And the hiring and training needed to teach the skills necessary?

So, I think advice from Henry Ford is worthy of our attention.

We have all had difficult challenges along the way.

Ironically, those challenges and their solution give us LIFT to face those just around the corner.

Life will never cease serving up problems.

We must never cease providing the answers.

If not today, when?