Dolly Parton’s Secret For A Long Marriage!

Parton recently talked to ET Canada about another secret she has – the way she’s stayed happily married to her husband, Carl Dean, for 56 years.

She said it hinges on giving each other space, noting that with her busy schedule, “we’re not in each other’s face all the time.”

“He’s not in the business, so we have different interests, but yet we have the things we love to do together,” she said.

“So it was meant to be, I think.

He was the one I was supposed to have and and vice versa.” (CNN)

Most people marry someone different than themselves.

It’s logical, then, that different people would have different interests.

Count Your Blessings!

You live in a free country.

You have heat and electricity.

You have clean water for bathing, preparing food and drinking.

You have access to employment opportunities.

You have access to various modes of travel.

Emergency medical services are available.

Various educational opportunities are available for your children and for you.

You can attend religious services that you choose to attend.

Most people in the world don’t have your blessings.

Be grateful!

My Mom

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My mom was born to Irish immigrants who settled in Chicago.

Her name was Paula Dillon and she was an only child.

Her father, Timothy Dillon, was a fireman in County Cork, Ireland.

He joined the Chicago fire department and rose to the position of Battalion Chief.

He died when mom was only 22 years old.

My grandmother insisted that mom learn to become a great pianist, a feat she did accomplish.

She was a graduate of the University of Chicago.

She met my dad on a blind date and married him in the chapel on the Notre Dame campus.

I was the oldest of her children comprising five boys and a girl.

She loved to write and sent her manuscripts to numerous magazines over the years.

My dad died in 2002 and mom lived until 2006.

After dad died, mom would say, “I want to be with my husband.”

Their marriage lasted 62 years.

In all that time, I never heard them argue, even once!

My Dad

My dad, Robert Ervin, grew up in Jackson, a small town south of Chillicothe, Ohio.

His father owned the only store in town that sold hardware and fine china.

He was the youngest of three brothers.

The older two attended Ohio State University while my dad went to Notre Dame.

His roommate at Notre Dame had a girlfriend who lived in Chicago.

His roommate fixed my dad up with a blind date who was a first cousin of his girlfriend.

Her name was Paula Dillon, the daughter of a mother and father who were both immigrants from Ireland.

They were married and had six children, five boys and a girl.

Dad became a professor at ND and taught Biology and Bacteriology for 21 years.

He was the perfect role model of both a husband and father.

Even though I live in the Detroit area, I’m still a passionate Notre Dame Football fan.

On his death bed, he said, “Well guys, what can I say?”

We immediately responded, “You said it with your life!”

What Skills Have You Learned Recently?

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As we all know, there is a shortage of skilled tradesmen, including carpenters, electricians and plumbers.

Because of this shortage, those with skills are demanding higher fees for their services.

Recently, the President of LinkedIn said there is a growing trend to hire people with certain skills instead of only looking for someone with a college degree.

It could help you grow a strong income stream if you learn a skill.

Even if you don’t use an acquired skill to make money, you could make repairs and or make some improvements to your home.

Only 2% of the carpenters in our country are women.

It doesn’t have to be that way.

Daily life is moving faster.

Continue to become more self-sufficient.

Grow YOURSELF!

If not today, when?

Still A Lot Of Job Openings!

I must get 10 emails each day offering a job opportunity.

Do you get them also?

I hear that our American economy is nearing full employment, but it’s hard for me to believe considering all the emails.

I’m not encouraging you to change jobs.

A rather high percentage of employees who left their company and went with another, have returned.

So, I’m not suggesting that leaving your present employer is necessarily right for you.

If you are unhappy with your present situation, however, it might pay to look elsewhere.

Before doing so, make a list of the attributes you must have in order to make a change.

Some of the attributes might include:

  • Distance from home
  • Your competency in the position being offered
  • Salary and benefits
  • Working environment
  • Upward mobility
  • % of work allowed from home
  • Does the new employer have a promising future
  • What is the management style of your immediate superior

World Burning More Coal Than Ever Before!

The global energy crisis caused by Russia’s war on Ukraine has pushed global demand for coal- THE MOST POLLUTING OF ALL FOSSIL FUELS – to a record high in 2022, the International Energy Agency (IEA) said on Friday.

Demand for coal is set to grow 1.2% and top 8 billion metric tons for the first time ever this year.

This record comes only a year after countries agreed to phase down their use of coal at the United Nations’ climate conference in Glasgow.

The growth is mostly down to a rapid rise in the prices of natural gas and other fuels, which has forced some countries and regions to turn to coal as a cheaper alternative.

Coal is the world’s largest source of energy for electricity generation and the production of steel and cement.

But it is also the biggest single contributor to the climate crisis, accounting for around 40% of global greenhouse gas emissions from fossil fuel use. (CNN)

It looks like another damaging result of Russia’s invasion of Ukraine.

The last thing we need is the increased burning of the most polluting fossil fuel, COAL!

The U.S. Marine They Call “WOLF!”

The job was straightforward: The small team of several men, led by an American known as WOLF, would be Ukraine’s eyes in their battle for Bakhmut, Ukraine that night.

Huddling in the Soviet-style apartment and staring at the white-and-black glow of infrared images as they tried to identify Russian positions.

The team is part of Ukraine’s foreign legion, a unit created at the start of the war that has supplied thousands of international volunteers to bolster Ukraine’s ranks.

WOLF, a 29-year-old former U.S. Marine, came to Ukraine because, as he put it, “I’m a good Christian and it was the right thing to do.” (New York Times)

People around the world, like WOLF, are putting themselves in harm’s way in an attempt to help strangers.

There is a basic GOODNESS in all of us.

We experience it every day!

Will You Take “The Road Less Travelled By?”

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There a many things wrong in America and you know what they are.

Politicians who blatantly lie to their constituency.

People in high places promoting conspiracy theories.

Parents who are not providing the kind of leadership to combat the influence of the social media.

Too many of our fellow citizens lukewarm patriots.

A growing segment of our population falling into poverty.

Racial prejudice alive and rampant.

In the midst of all these things wrong with America, You must stand up and “Take The Road Less Travelled!”

You must epitomize, every day in every way, those good qualities you want your kids to live by.

All too many parents are not providing the brand of leadership we need to turn America around.

Stand for what you know is good and right.

If not today, when?

London Is Covered With Snow!

Mounted soldiers ride along the Mall in central London during the changing of The King's Guard.

You are seeing the “Changing of the King’s Guard” while London has a snow storm.

England’s cherished traditions must go on, no matter what the circumstances may bring.

Because the city is in the southern part of the country, it does not experience as much snow as the northern part or as in Scotland.

The infrequent snowfall brings the city to a halt.

Buses can’t move because their wheels just spin on the snow,

All forms of transit are likewise affected.

Schools are closed and many workers are stuck at home.

Despite all of this, children are delighted and adults are in a lighter mood, also.

So, life goes on even on those days mighty London is brought to her knees.

There is a lesson there for all of us!

Keep moving ahead!

If not today, when?