TRUTH: Does It Have A Future?

We have been introduced to a new word in recent years.

That word is MISINFORMATION!

And now that Ai has been unchained, we are being exposed to human and other sources.

Upon the completion of a recent blog, Ai jumped in and offered 5 meta tags to add readers.

What role does TRUTH play in the trust of spouses?

What role does TRUTH play in the relationship between parent and child?

Or, employer and employee?

What obligations do members of the media have in reporting the news?

These relationships must be based uopn TRUTH in order for our society to survive.

The examples mentioned above must DO BETTER!

College Towns!

Having grown up in South Bend with my dad a professor at Notre Dame, I lived the life.

South Bend significantly benefits from the University of Notre Dame with the large influx of visitors during Notre Dame football games.

These home games generate revenue for local businesses like hotels, restaurants, and shops.

Because of its huge athletic department, there are always many sporting events to attend.

 Notre Dame has been involved in revitalizing South Bend neighborhoods through projects like the Eddy Street Commons, a mixed-use development with retail, dining, and residential options. 

The university also provides a significant number of jobs for local residents including faculty, staff, and part-time positions.

As you can see, it’s a win-win opportunity for both the University and South Bend!

Perfectionism?

Perfectionism “can look like striving for excellence for the sake of excellence.”

It can be setting high standards, working hard, caring deeply.

Noting those are positive attributes. It is a huge asset for many professions — say, for a pilot or brain surgeon — but it can tip over into unhealthy behavior.

A recent book addresses this problem.

Written by clinical psychologist Hendricks “How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics And Perfectionists.

“There is a saying for self-help book authors, which is, ‘Write the book you need.’

So I did write it for me. But as a clinical psychologist at an anxiety specialty center, I also wrote the book for everybody else like me.”

I guess the simplest advice is, Be careful of being too much of a perfectionist!

Demanding perfection of oneself continually can make you very unhappy. No one can meet that goal every time in every aspect of life without being on a roller coaster of depression/satisfaction/depression etc.

Do your best and let it go. That is very difficult for this type of person but possible. Often it is “good enough.” You have to be able to let it go and get on to your next goal. Otherwise you will never be satisfield with yourself and an unhappy person to live with or be around.

Choose to be happy and enrich the world with your contributions.

Do They Still Ask Permission?

Elderly man praying with and talking to a young... — Photo — Lightstock

Do men about to marry ask permission of the woman’s father to do so?

I know it’s an old fashioned custom.

And in many cases it is a foregone conclusion that the answer is “yes.”

Yet, I look upon this long-standing custom as a sign of respect.

I remember going down in the basement of my girlfriend’s home.

Her father was at his workbench with his back turned to me.

I told him that I loved his daughhter and was asking for his permission to marry her.

He turned to face me while pointing his finger at me.

He said, “You’d better take goood care of her!”

I hope this tradition is alive and well in today’s world.

Congestion Pricing?

Cars drive under E-ZPass readers and license plate-scanning cameras on Columbus Circle as congestion pricing takes effect in New York City on January 5, 2025.

New York City’s long-awaited, long-debated congestion pricing began on January 5, marking a new era for driving into Manhattan.

Passenger vehicles pay $9 per day at peak times and $2.50 at off-peak times.

Congestion pricing could generate revenue many cities are desperate for, while simultaneously easing traffic and improving air quality.

But legal challenges and President-elect Donald Trump’s opposition could determine whether it’s a blip or a new US trend.

The incoming president, who is originally from New York and whose Trump Tower resides within the Manhattan congestion zone, has been an outspoken critic, calling it a “disaster for NYC.”

Singapore has used it since the 1970’s. London since 2003 and Stockholm since 2007.

GoFundMe!

Have you ever contributed to a person thru gofundme.

It’s actually quite simple.

And you are able to see how much has been raised.

It is an immediate way to help a friend or a fellow citizen in need.

It was the first time I used it.

Some people gave $50. Others gave much more.

If there was ever a time to reach out and help a person in need, that time is now.

Keep gofundme in mind.

You may need help also one day.

If not today, when?

Superman: Atheist To Believer!

What was the first photo we saw Christopher Reeve in his Superman Suit? :  r/superman

Yes, he said he spent most of his life as an atheist.

That all changed when he fell from a horse in 1995 and was paralyzed from the neck down.

He joined The Unitarian Church and spoke about his faith in God.

After joining the church he embarked on a spiritual journey.

He said, “If you listen to your inner voice, you’ll know if you’re on the right track.

Dana Reeve, wife of Christopher Reeve was a loyal caregiver and advocate for people with spinal cord injuries.

Christopher Reeve died on October 10, 2004.

Hollywood Heartbreak!

Will Rogers’ former ranch house was destroyed by the Palisades Fire.

I think by now we all know some of the facts being reported.

We happen to know people who HAD a home in Pacific Palisades.

They actually emailed a video of their house burning down.

Now as they take stock of their future, they don’t see much that is positive.

All of their life and their plans have been put on hold realistically for years.

Where to go, what to do, what do we have to replace right now, what school will our children go to?

So many unanswered questions and today so few answers.

Neighbors and shopkeepers have been dispursed. Will we ever see them again.

Underlying all, we are the LUCKY ONES. Our family and our pets have survived.

We must live each day as it comes and trust that somehow we will get through this.

Notre Dame Goes To The Championship Game!

Notre Dame quarterback Riley Leonard (13) scores a touchdown during the second half of the Orange Bowl NCAA College Football Playoff semifinal game against Penn State.

Riley Leonard (#13) crosses the goal line for Notre Dame’s first TD against Penn State.

They will play the winner of tonight’s game between Texas and Ohio State.

I’ve been following Notre Dame football games since I was 4 years old.

Of course, there was no tv at the time, so we sat on the living room rug and listened to the games on the radio.

The man who announced the ND games was Joe Boland.

He had played on the 1924-1925 Notre Dame teams coached by Knute Rockne.

Growing up in South Bend, my childhood was a wonderland with Notre Dame football as the centerpiece.

SUCH FUN!

Outliving Loved Ones & Friends!

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It’s another adjustment as the years go by.

The only way to explain it is that each death leaves a hole in your life.

For many years they were there and now they’re not.

I think of them from time to time..

My recollections help me remember various scenes of what we did and where we were.

Being the optimist that I am, they’re always good memories.

The arithmetic dictates that you lose more loved ones and friends as you go along.

I’m very fortunate, however, because all my memories are happy ones.

They were spent in happy times!