I think it’s as simple as that.
Where is your focus? On you or your partner?
Many of us marry people who are quite different than ourselves.
I mention this because it’s important to know what makes your partner happy…
…it should be your first priority.
There is an old saying, “Happy wife, happy life.” It goes BOTH ways.
If our love is ‘GENUINE, it will not be difficult to know what makes our spouse happy.
For the most part, it is the little things that make our partner know they are loved.
The spouse that brings home a little treat for the other without being asked.
The spouse who cleans up the kitchen without being harrassed.
The spouse who leaves a “love” note behind for the other to find.
It is the little things, usually with no cost, that endear a spouse’s heart to you.
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