84 years old. Married 61 years. Six children, 22 grandchildren. Entrepreneur and founder of 8 businesses. Author of 9 books. Motivational speaker with 2,800 appearances.
Once in awhile, everyone is tempted to treat themselves. Maybe it is a sweet, or a purchase or even an activity. It could also just be a time alone to relax or read.
Why is it that most of us feel guilty when we think of “gifting” ourselves this way.
Maybe it is the way we were raised. Work has always been praised and admired whereas “treats” may indicate laziness or lack of ambition. Hard work has always been the key to success.
Even in school, hard work is what gets us to the finish line.
Maybe it is time to turn that philosophy around. Especially in the United States, we work, work, work. Overtime is rewarded, extra projects in schools get better grades and nice, clean houses are admired.
Let us treat ourselves now and then without guilt. When they say, “Stop and smell the flowers,” it is good advice. We must be balanced people who know how to enjoy the gifts of the earth.
When you are dying and look back on your life, will you agonize over the fact that you did not have more organized closets. Will you wish you had spent more time at the office?
I don’t think so.
Hopefully you will look back and remember all the joy and friendship. You will think of all the sights you have seen and the events that you have celebrated. You will be surrounded by the people you shared these things with and say, “It has been a good life.”
The Reverend Jesse Jackson always told us to “Keep hope alive.”
He knew that there are too many people in our world living without hope.
The dictionary defines “hope” as a feeling that what is wanted will happen.
So, His message to us was to bring hope to the hopeless.
But how long can a person hold on to hope when year after year their life does not improve?
If you are reading this, you have the ability to give hope to someone in your community. There are many organizations that provide hope in our name when we contribute.
For example, in the Detroit area, there is an organization called Lighthouse.
Sometimes, even if both parents are working fulltime jobs, it still is not enough to provide rent, utilities and food for their families.
This organization helps subsidize working parents so they can keep their families together and have a wholesome life.
Very often the parents will get advancements in their occupations and finally be able to make it totally on their own.
With a little help from someone like you, HOPE IS ALIVE!